Females, Love, Males, Relationships

Dating Dilemas

Alright, so I read this site a lot, and I relate to some of the stories and articles, but this list is exactly me.

  • I don’t play it chill. I’m not the cool girl.
  • I hate playing games. I hate having to wait to send messages so I don’t seem too available and therefore less desirable.
  • I don’t get why the person who shows the least interest holds all the cards.
  • I get anxious about all of this and shut down for fear of making a wrong move and mess everything up.
  • I hate waiting to define the relationship.
  • I hate casual sex, because I do get excited about emotional and intellectual connections as well.
  • I hate ghosting.
  • I don’t let issues fester, I address it, and move right along. The best thing is changed behaviour without feeling like I’m nagging.
  • I don’t have interest in flirting around with other people if I’ve already chosen a person to be with.
  • It’s hard to forget and let go if trust has been broken.

But it’s hard to point these out on something like Facebook without coming across a little obnoxious or narcissistic. It’s like a magician saying “tadaa” at the end of a trick, when the  magic is meant to speak for itself.

I would love to just send this out to anyone who shows interest in dating as a disclaimer up front. No #wastehertime2017 for me! lol

We just have to be ourselves, and wait to meet the person who is also saying these same things covertly.

 

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